Lately, it seems I’ve been struggling with negativity a lot.
It’s difficult to focus on the positives when so many things seem to be going
wrong… and even when nothing’s going wrong, our minds can still find something
to be negative about!
With that in mind, I’m going to share an article that I
wrote about two years ago about Self-Talk. I need to remind myself of this
every day, and I’d like to share it with you all today.
"I'll
never be like..."
Why do you want to be? Imitating good traits from a positive role model can be
a good thing, but God made you with your own unique personality...don't try to
change!
"I
can't..." Why can't
you? Are you trying hard enough? Do you even need to? If it's an area of
development, resolve to work harder at it. If it's something you physically
cannot do, or an area you don't excel in, tell yourself, "I may
not be good at this, but I have strengths in other areas!"
"I
never..." Really? Or
does it just feel that way right now?
"I'm so
stupid." God gave
you a host of talents in all sorts of different areas. Just because
you struggle in one or two areas, does not mean you are lacking in
intelligence.
"I'm
going to fail." How
do you know? Just because you've failed in the past does not mean you're going
to do it again. You have at least a 50% chance of success if you try...
and a 0% chance if you don't try.
"Nobody
cares about me." That's
an easy one to believe, but trust me, it isn't true! Lots of people care about
you, even if you can't see them. For one thing, God definitely cares about you.
For that matter, so do I!
"I always
mess up." No, you
don't. You do a lot of things right. Even if you do mess up on occasion (and
trust me, we all do!) tell yourself, "What can I learn from this? How
can this make me a better person?"
"Do not
conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the
renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's
will is--His good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2